Author: Avery Mcdonalid

The shirt reads FORCED FAMILY FUN in red and white lettering, and the words are framed by a string of festive lights. That is the whole design. No photograph, no family, no punchline beyond the phrase itself. The lights run around the text like a border, and the border is doing more work than the words.

I want to argue that the border is the joke. Not the phrase — the phrase is the setup. The lights are the frame that tells you how to read it.

Consider what happens if you strip the lights away. FORCED FAMILY FUN in red and white letters, floating on a shirt. It reads as a complaint. A grumble. Something a person wears to signal that they are enduring a holiday rather than enjoying one. The phrase alone is a sigh.

Now put the string of lights around it. The lights are the visual vocabulary of the holiday card, the department-store window, the mantel. They are the decoration that says this is a celebration. When you wrap a sigh in celebration decoration, the sigh becomes a wink. The lights do not soften the phrase; they reframe it. They tell the reader: the person wearing this knows the difference between the obligation and the affection, and is choosing to hold both at once.

That is a costume problem, and it is one volunteer theatres solve every December.

The frame is the casting decision

In a pre-1940 house, the proscenium arch is the frame. It tells the audience where to look and, more importantly, how to look. The same actor, the same line, the same gesture reads differently inside a gilded arch than it would on a flat black box stage. The arch is not decoration. It is instruction.

The shirt’s string of lights works the same way. It is a proscenium for a four-word joke. Without it, the words are a complaint in search of a listener. With it, the words are a performance of complaint — a knowing one, shared with whoever reads the shirt across a crowded room.

This matters for volunteer costume stewards because the holiday season is when our stages fill with shows that require exactly this kind of framing. A character who is exasperated by her family is not funny if she simply is exasperated. She is funny if the production has told the audience, through set, through light, through the shape of the scene, that her exasperation is part of a ritual she loves. The frame is the difference between a rant and a joke.

Red and white, and what the palette promises

The lettering is red and white. Red and white is the palette of the candy cane, the Santa suit, the peppermint. It is a palette that arrives with a promise: this is seasonal, this is familiar, this is safe. The shirt borrows that promise and spends it on a phrase that is not entirely safe. That is the transaction. The palette pays for the joke.

I am describing what I see in the artwork, not making a claim about the designer’s intent. But the effect is legible: the colors do the work of reassurance so the words can do the work of mild subversion. A volunteer theatre’s holiday poster, its lobby display, its program cover — all of them make the same trade. The familiar palette buys permission for the less familiar idea inside it.

The paired costume, again

The retail title calls this a matching shirt, and the phrase forced family fun implies a group. That is the second structural fact of the design: it is built to be worn in multiples. One shirt is a joke. Four shirts in a row at a holiday gathering is a bit. The design anticipates the ensemble.

Volunteer theatres know this problem intimately. The chorus costume, the matched pair, the family on stage in coordinated coats — these are not vanity. They are legibility. When four people wear the same joke, the audience reads the group before it reads any individual. The shirt’s phrase and its lights are simple enough to survive that multiplication. A more detailed design would turn to noise at four across. This one holds.

If you are costuming a holiday revue and you need a matched set that reads from the back row of a 1920s house, the lesson is not to buy this shirt. The lesson is to keep the graphic to one phrase and one frame. Two elements. That is what survives distance and repetition.

What the shirt is not

It is not a cure for family tension. It is not a statement about anyone’s actual relatives. It is a piece of printed apparel whose design I have described from the listing artwork, and nothing more. I have not worn it, tested it, or watched anyone react to it. The demand data behind the phrase is modest and seasonal — a reported range of 100 to 1,000 monthly US searches for the primary term, with related variants in the 10 to 100 range — and that tells you the phrase has a small, reliable December audience, not that the shirt is a phenomenon.

What interests me is the structure. A phrase that could read as complaint, wrapped in a border that converts it to shared humor. That is a costume principle, and it is one a volunteer theatre can use in December without spending a dollar on it.

The shirt itself is listed at the Quirky Cotton Collective Amazon listing if you want to see the artwork at full size.

What we spent

Nothing. This column is an observation of a printed design, not a purchase, a test, or a production expense. No line items to report.

Who to call

No vendors, inspectors, or code officials are implicated in a shirt. If your December production needs a matched costume set that reads from the back row, call your costume steward and your lighting designer together — the frame and the palette are the same conversation.

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Takeaway: Before your next holiday production, look at your poster, your program cover, and your lead costume side by side. If the frame is missing — the border, the palette, the visual cue that tells the audience how to read the joke — add it before you add another word.

The graphic is an orange jack-o-lantern face, and the mouth has fangs in it. That is the whole observation, and it is enough to start an argument. A carved pumpkin already reads as a face: triangle eyes, a notched grin, a candle behind it. Add two pointed teeth and the face stops being a pumpkin and becomes a character with an intention. For a volunteer theatre working in a pre-1940 assembly hall, that shift is the useful part. The shirt is a small, cheap demonstration of a costume principle we get wrong every October: the first read is the silhouette, and the second read is the joke.

I am not going to tell you the shirt is comfortable, because I have not worn it. I am not going to tell you it sold well, because the demand evidence I have is a keyword range, not a sales history. What I can do is read the artwork the way I read a costume plot: what does the audience see from the back row, and what do they see a beat later?

What the artwork actually shows

The design is a single orange jack-o-lantern face with vampire fangs in its mouth. No text, no scene, no border. The eyes and the carved grin do the first job — they say pumpkin — and the fangs do the second job — they say this pumpkin bites. The retail title calls it a Halloween costume pumpkin, and the visual observation confirms the fangs are part of the printed face, not a separate prop. That distinction matters backstage. A printed fang is a decision made once by the designer; a foam fang is a decision made forty minutes before curtain by whoever is holding the hot glue gun.

My interpretation, not a historical claim: the design works because it withholds the joke for half a second. The orange mass and the carved eyes are familiar enough that the viewer relaxes. Then the mouth registers. That is the same rhythm as a good comic entrance — establish the type, then break it.

The first read and the second read

In a long, narrow house — the kind most of us work in, where the back row is farther from the apron than the seat map suggests — a volunteer in a plain orange tunic reads as a pumpkin. A volunteer in an orange tunic with two white triangles at the mouth reads as a pumpkin that has been given a line of dialogue. The shirt compresses both reads into one flat graphic, which is why it is worth studying even if you never put it on a stage.

Most volunteer costume problems are second-read problems. The first read is fine — the audience knows the character is a ghost, a nurse, a pumpkin. The second read is missing, so the character has no attitude, and the actor has to supply one with their shoulders. A printed fang is a cheap way to give the actor something to play against. It is also a warning: if the second read is printed on the costume, the actor cannot change it. That is a trade, not a free win.

The paired-role test

Here is where I would use this object in a rehearsal room, and here is the limit. I would not build a production around a t-shirt. I would use it as a five-minute exercise for a paired scene — two characters who must be read as a set. The exercise is simple: put the shirt on one volunteer, put a plain orange shirt on the other, and walk them to the back of the house. Ask the person in the last row which one is the pumpkin and which one is the pumpkin with a secret. Then swap. The point is not the shirt. The point is that the audience assigns roles from the smallest asymmetry, and the director has to decide whether that asymmetry is intentional.

What this exercise cannot tell you: whether the shirt fits, whether the print survives a wash, whether it is visible under your specific stage wash, or whether it is safe near an open flame. I have not tested any of that, and a graphic on a product page is not a photometric measurement. If you are putting a printed costume near practical candles or a fire curtain, that is a conversation with your fire marshal and your insurer, not with a blog.

Why the fangs beat a full vampire

A full vampire costume — cape, collar, teeth — announces itself in the first read and has nowhere to go. The fanged pumpkin is funnier because it is mostly pumpkin. The audience has already categorized the object, and the fangs arrive as a correction. In costume terms, that is a cheaper and more reliable laugh than a full transformation, because it borrows the audience’s own assumption and then spends it.

This is the same reason I distrust costume plots that peak too early. If the audience knows everything about the character at the first entrance, the rest of the scene is decoration. The fangs are a small, printed argument for delayed information.

What we spent

Nothing. This column is an observation of a listed object, not a purchase order. I am not going to invent a receipt to satisfy a format. If your board wants a line-item for a costume exercise, the honest line is zero dollars, borrowed object, one rehearsal hour, and you should write it that way in the minutes.

Who to call

• Your fire marshal — before any printed or synthetic costume appears near open flame, practical candles, or the fire curtain. Ask about fabric flammability requirements in your occupancy class.
• Your insurer — before you add a costume piece to a scene with pyrotechnics or haze. Get the answer in writing.
• Your costume lead — to confirm whether a printed graphic is meant to be the whole costume or a layer under a jacket, because that changes the second read.
• Your house manager — to walk the back row with a tape measure and a volunteer in the actual costume, not a stand-in.

The takeaway

Before your next volunteer production locks its costume plot, walk one printed or assembled costume to the back row and ask a single question: what does this tell you after you have already decided what it is? If the answer is nothing, you have a first read and no second read, and the actor will be doing the work the costume should have done. The fanged pumpkin is a reminder that the second read can be two small triangles — and that it is a design decision, not an accident.

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The shirt discussed is the Vampire Fangs Jack O Lantern Face Halloween Costume Pumpkin.

The graphic is an orange jack-o-lantern face: two round eyes, a heart-shaped nose, and a smiling mouth. That is the whole design. No text, no border, no second color beyond the orange against the shirt. If you have spent any part of a fall season fitting volunteers into costumes in a pre-1940 house, you already know why that combination matters. The heart nose is the decision. Everything else is a pumpkin.

I want to be precise about what I am looking at, because the retail title calls this a “Cute Kids Jack O Lantern Face Halloween Costume Pumpkin,” and retail prose is not the same as printed artwork. The visual observation is the orange carved face with round eyes, a heart-shaped nose, and a smiling mouth. The title is a label. The design is the object. When you are buying or building a costume for a volunteer, the design is what the audience reads from row eight, and the label is what the search engine reads. Keep those separate in your own purchasing file, and you will make fewer mistakes.

Here is the argument. A jack-o-lantern face is a role signal, not a character. It tells the audience “this person is a pumpkin” in under a second, before the actor has said a word, before the lighting cue has settled, before the volunteer has remembered which side of the stage they enter from. That is exactly the job a costume does in a volunteer house with a short rehearsal calendar and a house that seats two hundred and forty people in seats that were installed when Our Town was a new script. The costume has to do the first read. The actor does the second.

What makes this particular face useful as a teaching object is the heart nose. A carved pumpkin face can go several ways: round eyes and a jagged grin reads menacing; slanted eyes and a thin mouth reads sly; round eyes and a small round nose reads neutral. The heart nose pulls the whole face toward sweet. It is a deliberate softening. In costume terms, that is a casting note disguised as a decoration. If your production needs a pumpkin that children in the audience will not flinch at, the heart nose is doing the work. If your production needs a pumpkin that will make the front row lean back, the heart nose is working against you. Neither is wrong. The mistake is not noticing which one you have.

This is where volunteer theatres get into trouble. A board member or a parent volunteer sees a jack o lantern shirt like this one and thinks: easy costume, one and done, the kid wears it and we are finished. That is true for a trunk-or-treat. It is not true for a stage. On a stage, the costume has to survive blocking, quick changes, and the specific problem of an actor who is also a volunteer with a day job and a limited number of rehearsals. A printed face on a shirt is a starting point, not a costume plot. The question your costume committee should ask is not “is this cute?” but “what does this read as from the back of the house, and does that match the role?”

I have a procedure for this that costs nothing and takes one rehearsal. It is not a safety inspection and it is not a compliance test; it is a legibility check, and you should say so in your notes so no one mistakes it for something it is not.

The Row-Eight Read. Before you commit a printed-face costume to a production, do the following at a regular rehearsal, with the house lights at the level you expect for the scene:

1. Have the actor wear the costume and stand at the center of the stage, facing the house.
2. Send one board member or volunteer to the back row with a clipboard and a pencil.
3. Ask that person to write down, in one sentence, what character or creature they see. No prompting. No hints.
4. Repeat from house left and house right, because a face printed on a shirt is flat, and flat reads differently at an angle.
5. Compare the three sentences. If they agree, the costume is doing its job. If they disagree, you have a costume problem, not an actor problem, and you have found it before opening night instead of after.

That is the whole check. It costs one rehearsal hour and one volunteer with a clipboard. It will not tell you whether the shirt is comfortable, whether it survives a wash cycle, or whether the actor likes it. Those are separate questions, and you should not pretend a legibility check answers them. What it will tell you is whether the heart nose is reading as sweet from row eight or disappearing into a general orange blur. That is the information your director needs before the program goes to the printer.

There is a second use for a face like this that volunteer houses underuse: the paired role. If you have two pumpkin characters, or a pumpkin and a scarecrow, or a pumpkin and a trick-or-treater, the printed face gives you a cheap way to establish a visual family. Two shirts with the same face read as a set. Two shirts with different faces read as two different characters. That sounds obvious, but in a volunteer house where costumes come from a bin in the basement and three different people donated them, the family resemblance is often the first thing to go. A printed face is a way to hold the family together without a sewing machine.

What I would not do is treat the shirt as a finished costume. The face is the front. The back is a blank shirt, and in a house with a thrust stage or a scene that plays upstage, the back is what the audience sees for half the scene. If the role requires the pumpkin to read from behind, you need a plan: a second printed face, a hat, a prop, or a blocking choice that keeps the actor downstage. Write that plan into the costume plot. Do not leave it to the volunteer to figure out at dress rehearsal.

The heart nose also raises a question your costume committee should answer in writing: what is the tone of this production? A heart-nosed pumpkin is a sweet pumpkin. If your fall show is a family-friendly revue, that is the right call. If your fall show is a haunted house fundraiser with a jump-scare at the end of the second act, a heart-nosed pumpkin is a mismatch, and the audience will feel it even if they cannot name it. The costume is not the whole tone, but it is the first signal, and first signals are hard to undo. Put the tone decision in the minutes. Then put the costume decision under it. That way, when a board member asks in September why the pumpkin looks friendly, you can point to the August meeting where the board chose friendly.

One more practical note, and then I will stop. The retail title says “Kids.” The visual observation does not establish sizing, fabric, or fit, and I am not going to pretend it does. What I can tell you is that in a volunteer house, the sizing question is a costume-committee question, not a purchasing question. Measure the actor. Check the return policy before you order. Write the order date and the return window in the costume file. If the shirt does not fit, you want to know that in September, not on October 28.

What I keep coming back to is the heart nose. It is a small choice, and it changes the whole read. That is the lesson for a volunteer theatre: the smallest printed detail is often the casting decision. The eyes say pumpkin. The mouth says pumpkin. The nose says which pumpkin. Know which one you have before the audience tells you.

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Who to Call

• Your costume committee chair — to schedule the Row-Eight Read at a regular rehearsal and record the results in the costume plot.
• Your director — to confirm the tone decision in writing before costumes are purchased or built.
• Your board secretary — to put the tone decision and the costume decision in the minutes, so the paper trail matches the stage.

What to Read Next

• “The Eyelashes Are the Casting Decision” — on the costume that reads before the actor speaks.
• “The Sunglasses Are the Casting Decision” — on the prop that sets the tone.
• “The Broom Is the Second Read” — on the prop that completes the pun.

The shirt reads TWEEDLE DUM across the chest, with I’M WITH DEE beneath it and a right-pointing arrow at the end of the line. That is the whole design. No illustration of a round little man in a propeller beanie, no checkerboard border, no Carroll quotation curling around the hem. Just a name, a claim, and a direction.

I have spent a lot of committee hours on paired costumes, and most of them go wrong in the same place: the pair is designed as a pair and never tested as two separate people walking in from opposite wings. The Tweedle Dum shirt is interesting because it solves that problem with typography instead of costume construction. The arrow does the work. It tells the audience which way to look for the other half.

This is the Dum half of the set. The companion shirt, by the same logic, would carry the Dee name and a left-pointing arrow, so that when the two wearers stand side by side the arrows point at each other. I have not seen the companion in person; I am reading the design as printed, and the design is legible enough to reason from. The Dum shirt is the one observed here, and it is the one that tells you what the pair is supposed to do on stage.

What the arrow actually accomplishes

In a volunteer theatre, a paired costume has three jobs. It has to identify each wearer, it has to identify the relationship, and it has to survive the distance between the back row and the stage. Most homemade pairs fail the third job. Two people in matching tunics read as two people in tunics from Row K. The Tweedle Dum shirt passes the third job because the arrow is a directional cue, and directional cues read at distance even when lettering does not.

That is the argument I want to make here, and it is narrower than it sounds. The shirt is not a costume solution for every show. It is a demonstration of a principle: when a pair must read as a pair, give the audience a spatial instruction, not just a matching color. The arrow is the instruction. It says the other one is that way. An audience that cannot read I’M WITH DEE from the back of the house can still read the arrow, and the arrow is enough to make the joke land.

The rehearsal check I would actually run

Here is the procedure I would put in the stage manager’s book, and it costs nothing but a rehearsal hour. Before tech week, have the two wearers stand at their opening positions. Walk to the back row of the house. Ask one question: can you tell, from here, which way the other one is? If the answer is no, the costume is not doing its job and no amount of additional trim will fix it. If the answer is yes, you have a readable pair and you can stop worrying about it.

Run the same check from the two side sections, because a right-pointing arrow reads differently from house left than it does from center. Run it once under the actual stage wash, not under work lights. Run it once with the wearers in their blocking positions rather than standing shoulder to shoulder, because the whole point of a paired costume is that the pair is sometimes apart. None of this requires a light meter or a compliance standard. It requires one person with a clipboard and the willingness to walk to the back row.

What the check does not establish is anything about the garment itself. I have not worn this shirt, washed it, or tested its ink under stage lighting. I am reading the printed design and proposing a blocking check, not certifying a product. The distinction matters in a volunteer house, where a costume decision made on a Tuesday can become a board conversation by Friday.

Why the text-and-arrow form is the right one for this pair

Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum are a comedy of sameness. The joke is that they are nearly identical and insist on their difference anyway. A paired costume that tries to reproduce the characters literally — the caps, the collars, the round bellies — spends its budget on construction and often reads as two people in rented outfits. A paired costume that reduces the characters to a name and a direction spends nothing on construction and reads as a joke. For a volunteer theatre with a costume budget measured in thrift-store receipts, the second approach is usually the correct one.

The shirt is available as a standard t-shirt through the listing at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0HLT879NW. I am linking it because it is the object under discussion, not because I am recommending a purchase. The design principle stands whether you buy the shirt or paint the same words on two thrift-store tees with a stencil and a bottle of fabric paint. The arrow is the idea. The garment is the delivery method.

What the design does not do

The shirt does not tell the audience which character is which beyond the printed name. It does not supply the physical comedy that the Tweedles require. It does not replace a rehearsal conversation about who stands where and when. A volunteer coordinator who hands two actors these shirts and assumes the work is done has confused a legible costume with a staged one. The shirt makes the pair readable. The blocking makes the pair funny. Those are two different jobs, and the second one is the one that happens in the room.

I would also note what the design declines to do. It does not attempt a likeness. It does not crowd the chest with illustration. It trusts the words and the arrow to carry the whole joke, and that trust is the design’s best quality. In a volunteer house, the costume that trusts a single clear idea is the costume that survives a dress rehearsal, a borrowed safety pin, and a last-minute cast change.

Who to call

If a paired costume decision in your house raises a question about the production’s rights or the use of a licensed character, the person to call is the licensing agent named on your production contract, not the board president. If the question is about whether a costume piece is safe for a performer moving on a raked stage or near a flame effect, the person to call is your fire marshal, and the relevant standard is NFPA 101, Life Safety Code, as adopted by your jurisdiction. If the question is about the costume budget line, the person to call is your treasurer, and the document to bring is the line-item budget approved at the last board meeting.

What to read next

For the companion argument on the Dee half of the pair, see the earlier column on the left-pointing arrow. For the broader question of how a costume reads before an actor speaks, the eyelashes column is the place to start. For the budget mechanics of a volunteer costume shop, the line-item template in the treasurer’s packet is the document that matters.

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The takeaway is one sentence long: before you approve any paired costume, walk to the back row and check whether the pair still reads as a pair from there. If it does not, the arrow is the fix, and the arrow costs nothing.

The graphic is an orange jack-o-lantern face. Carved triangular eyes, a small triangular nose, a wide smile with a few square teeth. And then, along the upper curve of each eye, a row of black eyelashes. That is the whole design. No text, no border, no pumpkin stem. Just the face, and the lashes.

I have spent a lot of hours in green rooms watching volunteers argue about whether a costume reads from the back row. Usually the argument is about color, or silhouette, or whether the hat is too big. Almost never is it about eyelashes. But the eyelashes on this shirt are the most interesting thing about it, because they are the one element that is not part of the carved pumpkin. They are applied. They are a choice.

That distinction matters to a volunteer theatre more than it might first appear. A jack-o-lantern face is a mask. It is a shape cut into a surface. The eyelashes are a signal that someone decided the mask needed a little more information. Not more decoration — more information. They tell you the pumpkin is a character, not just a prop. They tell you the face has a point of view.

What the lashes actually do

Look at the face without them. Triangular eyes, a smile. That is a classic carved pumpkin, and it can read as friendly or menacing depending on the angle and the light. It is ambiguous. Add the lashes and the ambiguity collapses. The face becomes coy, or pleased with itself, or maybe a little sarcastic. The lashes are doing the work that a raised eyebrow does on a human face. They are a small, deliberate piece of stagecraft printed on cotton.

This is the same problem a costumer faces when dressing a chorus of townspeople or a pair of matched roles. You have a silhouette that reads as pumpkin or guard or twin. That gets you halfway. The second half is the detail that tells the audience how to feel about the silhouette. A sash. A pair of gloves. A row of eyelashes. The detail is not decoration. It is direction.

I am not claiming the designer of this shirt was thinking about blocking. I am saying the shirt is a useful teaching object because it makes the principle visible in about four square inches of orange ink. The face is the role. The lashes are the interpretation.

The rehearsal check I would actually run

Here is a simple exercise for a volunteer costume committee, and it costs nothing but a half hour and a roll of painter’s tape. It is not a test of this shirt. It is a test of whatever costume pieces you are considering for your fall production, using the shirt’s logic as a prompt.

Stand at the back of your house, in the actual seats, with the actual house lights at the level they will be during the show. Have a volunteer walk from the back of the stage to the front, wearing the costume piece in question. Do not ask the people around you whether they like it. Ask them one question: What is this person? Not who. What. If the answer is a role — a pumpkin, a guard, a twin — the silhouette is working. If the answer is a mood — scary, cute, confusing — the silhouette is not doing its job yet.

Then add the detail. The lashes, the sash, the prop. Run it again. The answer should shift from what to who. If it does, the detail is earning its place. If it does not, you have saved yourself a sewing budget line and a load-in argument.

Two limits on this exercise. First, it is a legibility check, not a safety check. It tells you nothing about flame resistance, visibility in low light, or whether a hem will trip a volunteer on a raked stage. Those are separate conversations with separate paperwork. Second, it is not a substitute for a full dress rehearsal. It is a five-minute filter you run before you commit volunteer hours to a piece that may not read.

Why the eyelashes are the harder choice

It is easy to add a prop. It is harder to add a detail that changes the meaning of the face without changing the face. The lashes on this shirt do not alter the carved shape. They sit above it. They are a small editorial gesture, and they are the reason the shirt is not just another pumpkin.

That is the lesson I would carry into a costume meeting. When a volunteer says the costume is not reading, the first instinct is often to add more — more fabric, more color, more trim. The better question is whether the existing shape needs one small, deliberate signal that tells the audience how to read it. A pair of lashes. A button. A stripe of paint on a prop. The smallest possible intervention that resolves the ambiguity.

If you want to see the object I am describing, the shirt is listed as the Cute Eyelashes Jack O Lantern Face Halloween Costume Pumpkin from Quirky Cotton Collective. The design is exactly what the visual observation says: an orange jack-o-lantern face with eyelashes and a smile. I am describing the printed artwork, not a wearing experience or a production that used it.

What to do with this before your next costume meeting

Print the face. Not the shirt — the face. Sketch a jack-o-lantern on a sheet of paper, then sketch it again with lashes. Tape both to the green room wall. Ask your costume lead which one tells the audience more. Then ask whether your current build has a lashes problem: a shape that reads as a role but not as a character. The fix may be smaller than you think, and it may cost less than a yard of trim.

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